But there's alway a spot in the game when suddenly you notice you're not everybody's chump any more. You finally got that one spell you needed, or tore through that dungeon and found the armor, or got the skill or the perk, and finally... you're there. Or at least you can see the light at the end of the tunnel.
So where is that point in the game for you? Was it a perk? A skill? A weapon?
For me, I really think it was finding Fort Independence. Before that, my biggest limitation was having enough ammo. There were sure enough baddies to shoot at, but I never had enough bullets to put in them, even with the Scrounger perk. And never had enough ammo for the best gun I had. It was always about shooting stragglers in the Wasteland and hoping to find a couple of bullets here or there, and running like the devil from any big fire fight. After Fort Independence... bring it on. I started winning big fights, and walking away with big loot. And that meant smooth sailing.