I go to solstheim i dont know how does that write with lidya and when a get to the temple of miraak as you know you get a follower there i lose lidya i dont care about that beacose y think she's going to get to raven rock when i kill miraak i go there i lidya wasnt there i go to mi house and she wasnt thare can someone tell how to take her back please xd

Lydia is probably dead.

If you haven't purchased breezehome,lydia lives in Dragonsreach