It would seem that after purchasing the Bedroom set for the Whiterun house the bed itself is classified as "owned" and the system will not let me sleep in it. I was able to sleep before I purchased the bedroom set.

Can I fix this manually from the console while I wait for a patch?

I'm using the PC version of the game.

No problems on my PS3, but for PC I reckon you could just use the setownership command.

Your bed is the large one in the main room upstairs. The little one is for Lydia.

Lydia keeps coming into my room and won't leave...sits at that dammed little table....I may dragon shout at her.

I mean...she does have her own room and all....she never goes in there.

The jarl has just "owned" you
:disguise:

Lydia likes to watch ... she's kinky like that.

I've actually seen Lydia use her room. although she does like to come in and sit right down in my room as well.

Didn't even see the little one until you mentioned it. I am looking at the large one upstairs. It's still shown as owned. I see the other one your talking about now, it's also owned.