But just temporarily standing down to assess the situation? Thats the order that sends them into a tizzy?
Its obvious that the MM are happy to salute their 'General' and pretend to have trappings of leadership when it suits them. But the very moment that becomes even slightly inconvenient to them, they throw up the "I don't have to listen to you" trump card. Because that's absolutely what it is: a 'get out of orders free card.'
No a leader doesn't have to be a unquestioning dictator. But the MM aren't a High School Chess Club: its supposed to at least have some sort of military organization (or at least pretends to). Yet being "General" of them apparently means about as much as being President of said Chess Club. That's how unimportant the leadership of the MM is: when push comes to shove, they'll do what they want. If they want to obey you, they'll obey you. If they don't: they won't.