Why are most of my friends girls? : Othor Games

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 7:16 am

I think the "bros before hoes" thing was a joke no? People don't actually use that phrase seriously surely.

Be happy that you have a good circle of friends, regardless of gender, it's the fact that you can call them a friend of yours is what's worth reflecting on, in the shower, or wherever else you like to ponder your many thoughts.

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 3:58 am

I am a girl, and I much prefer being friends with guys. It just depends on your preferences. :shrug:

Hear hear. I've never had many girl friends. Other girls just don't like me, for some reason, and I've always gotten along with guys better.

PS: In the shower? Oh dear... :mellow:

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 8:50 am

Well most of my friends are gals, the only one who isnt is the one i want to date :prod: (smiley unrelated)

dont have a lot of guy friends, and most of the ones i do have [censored]s.

Only have one good dude friend

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 10:56 am

I was in the shower this morning, deep in though (as always) I suddenly realized that most of my friends are girls. I'm a dude but I only have a few bro friends and they are ones I've known since elementary, but besides them I must have at least a dozen or so best chick friends. I think its due to the fact that I think a lot of guys my age are obnoxious or straight up jerks (no one on these forums though, you're all cool) dont get me wrong, I'm loud and goofy and sometimes annoying but I just find girls to be better friends and I dont know why. I even ditched my old lunch table with a few of my guy friends to sit by my girlfriend and her chick friends, needless to say my friends pulled the old "bros before you-know-what card"

Also before anyone asks I do not paint my nails with them and talk for hours over the phone with them, I'm still a manly-ish man I just hang out with girls more than guys and I'm wondering if anyone else here tends to be better friends with the opposite gender.

same with me guy. I did not like the guys in my age group from my school. They always had something rude to say about everything I said, and it got on my nerves. I used to hang out with girls all the time because they didn't fart, burp, talk about nasty private parts, and stupid your momma jokes over and over again. It got really old. Just watch out though dude. If you get too many friends that are girls, then you will only known for being "the nice guy" and girls won't actually date you, they will only want to hang out with you. I learned that lesson haha.

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 7:40 am

I think the "bros before hoes" thing was a joke no? People don't actually use that phrase seriously surely.

Be happy that you have a good circle of friends, regardless of gender, it's the fact that you can call them a friend of yours is what's worth reflecting on, in the shower, or wherever else you like to ponder your many thoughts.

I have never heard it used seriously. Also, the rule is exempt in the case of exceptionally hot girls ^_^

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 4:46 am

Most of my friends are girls as well, but Im definitely a beta-male, and I am a crossdresser as well. Sooo.... that is what it is. It doesnt matter though, good friends are good friends treasure them.

» Fri Feb 18, 2011 11:37 pm

Opposite.

» Fri Feb 18, 2011 9:57 pm

I can kind of relate. Though the male to female friends spectrum is pretty much in balance, much of the time I enjoy the time I spend with my female friends over that of my male friends. This isn't because they are simply female, it's because they seem more mature (i'm still pretty young) and my male friends are still in that "Im a man, arghhh" phase that I feel I grew out of not long after puberty. Though that's just me talking.

» Fri Feb 18, 2011 9:09 pm

Nothing wrong with that at all, I find girl freinds to be more easy to talk to.

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 2:58 am

a real friend would actually say "Yo, go hit that".

If any friend of mine said something that stupid I'd break his nose.

I must admit I don't fully understand this. If you hang around with women, this is apparently gay, but wanting to be in the company of men is apparently heterosixual?

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 12:47 pm

I must admit I don't fully understand this. If you hang around with women, this is apparently gay, but wanting to be in the company of men is apparently heterosixual?

Good point!

» Fri Feb 18, 2011 11:01 pm

Nope, sadly, my female to male friend ratio is about 1:4.

That means I got about 20 friends! :cake:

:frog:

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 9:02 am

I must admit I don't fully understand this. If you hang around with women, this is apparently gay, but wanting to be in the company of men is apparently heterosixual?

I have a one word explanation for you: humans.

» Fri Feb 18, 2011 10:34 pm

Good friends are good friends, doesn't matter what six they are. My friends at school were mostly male, purely because we had the same interests. The only annoying thing was that my best friend and I were constantly being accused of sleeping with each other, despite us knowing each other for years and it's always been completely platonic. I've found that as you grow up and people get more mature that kind of thing dies down though, and people can accept that you can be friends without wanting to get in each other's pants.
Now I'd say I've got an even amount of male and female friends.

» Fri Feb 18, 2011 10:22 pm

I was in the shower this morning, deep in though (as always) I suddenly realized that most of my friends are girls. I'm a dude but I only have a few bro friends and they are ones I've known since elementary, but besides them I must have at least a dozen or so best chick friends. I think its due to the fact that I think a lot of guys my age are obnoxious or straight up jerks (no one on these forums though, you're all cool) dont get me wrong, I'm loud and goofy and sometimes annoying but I just find girls to be better friends and I dont know why. I even ditched my old lunch table with a few of my guy friends to sit by my girlfriend and her chick friends, needless to say my friends pulled the old "bros before you-know-what card"

Also before anyone asks I do not paint my nails with them and talk for hours over the phone with them, I'm still a manly-ish man I just hang out with girls more than guys and I'm wondering if anyone else here tends to be better friends with the opposite gender.

You're gay.

Anyway, my friends:

6 lads + me, 6 ladies. (not all in the same group)

EDIT: Actually, how did you count these people? I've got other good friends, both males and females, who I don't hang around with often.

» Fri Feb 18, 2011 9:28 pm

@tesfanner

If you pass by them in the street and stop for a sec to greet and ask how they're doing they're considered a friend, if you stop by them and start chatting up then you're good friends, if you break out of your way to stop and have coffee with them you probably need to call the other guys you were supposed to meet and tell them you're running late.

Seriously though, if you want to count how many friends you've got you first need to know how you consider one as a friend

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 9:58 am

Yeah that's my point. Since I've got bazillions of friends, where do I start? I should probably use the Malta census of the Male/Female ratio to the population for accurate results.

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 8:14 am

@tesfanner

If you pass by them in the street and stop for a sec to greet and ask how they're doing they're considered a friend, if you stop by them and start chatting up then you're good friends, if you break out of your way to stop and have coffee with them you probably need to call the other guys you were supposed to meet and tell them you're running late.

Seriously though, if you want to count how many friends you've got you first need to know how you consider one as a friend

I agree. There are a handful of people that I really enjoy hanging out with, but wouldn't ever fully trust. Are they really friends? I don't feel so.

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 6:20 am

Meh, same thing for me. And I'm not a girly man as well

You might say I'm a stereotype man that's just able to understand what women want, or something like that...
Don't bother about it

It doesn't matter what gender your friends are, as long as you like them and they like you

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 10:00 am

vI must admit I don't fully understand this. If you hang around with women, this is apparently gay, but wanting to be in the company of men is apparently heterosixual?

They be angry because they no get to tap that. >jokealert< >jokealert<

» Fri Feb 18, 2011 11:58 pm

I must admit I don't fully understand this. If you hang around with women, this is apparently gay, but wanting to be in the company of men is apparently heterosixual?

If I had a dollar for every time someone called me gay for hanging around girls all the time, I would be a very Rich man. Its funny when you actually have a girlfriend, and the guys that are calling you gay haven't had one for about three or four years. I have went up and asked guys that have made fun of me why they consider hanging with girls gay and the answer that I get all the time is. "It just is!" All the guys do their stupid group laugh and then walk away.

Jealousy my friend!

» Fri Feb 18, 2011 10:37 pm

Second, your pals chanting "bros before hoes" don't know what they're saying. Bearing in mind that phrase refers to guy friends over the girl you're in a relationship with, consider this: who would actually prefer you being with male friends instead of a girlfriend? The answer is a lonely guy who's desperate for company, or a virgin who doesn't know why a real friend would actually say "Yo, go hit that". Either way, ask your friend which one he is, and he'll stop saying dumb crap like that middle school mantra.

I agree, but you know that friend who starts dating someone and completely ignores all of his guy friends? That's the only time I'll pull the BBH card lol. Life's all about balance, you can't just always hang out with guy friends, and you can't always hang out with your gf.

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 3:21 am

Why does it matter, friends are friends.

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 3:15 am

I think it's more to do with who've you've grown up with and what you've done in that time. My friends are mostly male, not because I choose to hang around with men over women, I much prefer women in general, I just don't know as many women as I do men in general (work/school etc.). The ratio has always been heavily weighted and it makes sense that I hang around with men more than women :shrug:

» Sat Feb 19, 2011 12:21 pm

I agree, but you know that friend who starts dating someone and completely ignores all of his guy friends? That's the only time I'll pull the BBH card lol. Life's all about balance, you can't just always hang out with guy friends, and you can't always hang out with your gf.

I agree. I also think that when a guy starts ignoring his friends because of a girl it's a sign something terrible is going to happen...