well if you don't like her then just DONT TAkE HER AS A FOLLOWER!! its completely optional to take her. But if you do, then please TREAT HER WITH RESPECT!
I have a love hate relationship with Lydia on one end, I like her. She's always been helpful in battle with me alongside my Dremora Lord. But on another hand:
-I purposely avoid floor traps, but who do you know bumbles behind me? Lydia and she activates the traps all the time. I made a nice enough path for her to go around the trap, instead she steps on it. Either killing us in the process or waking something dead from ahead of us
-I'm sworn to carry your burdens *shudders* That one line. I am giving you Ebony Mail alongside an enchanted sword that I spent time on. As much as you're helpful in battle, why do you sound so sarcastic and the attitude is not needed. Especially after doing half of my journey with Lydia around.
-She's nearly killed me about four times. She always sorta blocks entrances and exits. And one time we were getting mob so bad. I was trying to back away and got caught between Lydia and a Draugr Overlord. She is so lucky I was able to escape. Or in another essence I have killed her because she runs into my "Rune Traps" when trying to aggro enemies. I learned now how to beat her to it and not kill her. It requires slow time and run as fast as you can.