I never claimed to be an authority, nor was I being dogmatic. I have been here for nearly 4 years, and that is what I have come to generalize from people who brought up the same subject. They didn't bring up lore, or anything like that, it was almost purely that axes have sharp edges, so they don't belong in blunt, and at the same time not even blades. Having an Axe skill seems realistically "better"
From a realistic standpoint, regardless of lore, axes are vastly different from maces. One is made for cutting, the other for bashing. Simply looking up videos on how they are used will tell you right away that they are nothing alike.
From a lore standpoint, if they say they are similar, then they are similar, but you cant disregard people's natural inclination to want to base things off reality before accepting "altered physics"