I don't have this problem, just take what you need and store stuff in a room when you find it. You have a lot of time to gather things, you just need to get a better concept of what you actually need. You have to hoard in the wasteland, but use your head.
yeah, but "crafting" [workbench/campfire/reload bench] requires a LOT of different stuff that is not all that common. So, I save ALL the stuff even though I'm not high enough level to actually craft most things yet. And while a lot of it is lite weight, it adds up real fast!!!
Plus needing to carry multiple weapons 'cause you are always running out of ammo for one and have to switch, plus repair of armor and weapons requires duplicates for parts
So tell me, what should I drop from above list???