Because he disagrees with you and has no requirement to convince you of anything at all. He's already convinced of what he likes. You seem to be the only one trying to convince others that bad behavior serves a purpose. For many, it serves no purpose at all. And those are the ones this game is for. And since the game direction was already decided by the developers it will be a good game for those who like it. For those who want a different game, there are other games out there to choose from.
It's really not up to us so what difference can this debate really make? Nobody is denying you your opinion. You have expressed it. Read it, there is it. They are just disagreeing with you. Nobody has called you names or flamed you or been confrontational. All they have done is disagree with your assessment.
Why not spend the time finding a game that meets your desires instead of trying to convince folks that like this sort of game that they should not? What purpose would it serve? Do you think the developers will read your post and say, "hey, we should have thought of that. Let's scrap everything we've worked on the the past 5 or so years and start over with this gentleman's desires and ideas in mind."
Nope, not going to happen. Sorry. I do hope you can find a nice fit for yourself.