So I play on a medium-ish laptop, which runs Skyrim with mods at around 24-35 fps. For most games like Metro 2033 and Thief, I get around the same range of fps as well. But then earlier this year I got Sleeping Dogs, which ran at a crazily smooth 40+ fps (for me). And its not like the graphics were compromised or anything. Plus there are thousands of NPCs walking around on the streets, though its not the same interaction as TES games. Still, NPCs. If I remember correctly there were almost no places where I had lag, everything looks nice and smooth even when raining. So its like, why can't more games have performances like that? It was literally the only game which was able to run stellar graphics without lag on my poor laptop.
And then on the other end of the spectrum I recently played some unity games like the Long Dark. And boy, was that horrible. Enabling shadows on that [censored] made me drop to single digit fps in some cases, and around 17-24 in others. And its not like the graphics are stunning. The lighting is fine I guess, but the models and textures are sub par compared to the bigger games. And yet it runs worse? I mean, it just feels ridiculous that a game with crappier graphics actually runs worse. The graphic lag really turned me off for that game.
Edit: The performance between skyrim and sleeping dogs, I know that. But unity really takes the cake.