I am as well and agree.
I wish these people would stop acting like they own the genre and define who plays it:
Then start with yourself, your very responses belie that what you dislike.
"Those who are perfectly happy just running around killing things, exploring some dungeons, collecting loot and doing quests. And those who want rich and meaningful character development and progression behind all that. To the former, stats are just an obstacle to overcome. They're not fussed about spending hours defining who their character is - all they want to do is play around with their character's appearance then make them all-powerful as quickly as possible so they can go and play TES like a sandbox action-adventure game. To the latter group, attributes are a must"
Yet, what you describe (and I highlighted) is exactly what Skyrim allows for. Oblivion and before made the palyer stick with their choices for a build, because choosing alternate attributes against that race, class and sign one chose to progress, happens very slowly. Now, Skyrim does do this to an extent, but it seem it has two default skills that level fast, regardless of the race one chooses. In Skyrim, running around, killing, looting, steaking, etc makes for fast leveling on "all" levels and that fits right in what you decry in your quotation. You should rethink your complaints a bit more, or else at least experience playing previous TES game in depth
Funny because in my RP experiences some of the ones most obsessed with stats are the ones that want to run around and kill stuff and collect loot. Munchkins, min/maxers - they don't get where they are by being fabulous RPers using stats to create rich and meaningful characters.
Again, you are describing what Skyrim doesn't really allow for, as it promotes the running around, etc as you so describe. Seriously, if it were as you say, I would be screaming how awful Morrowind is in comparison, but that would be me lying otherwise.
Of course I wont generalize and say it is all like that, because it is not. Just like not every person "want rich and meaningful character development and progression behind all that" is rudderless ships if they don't have columns of numbers and those who want to do nothing but kill and loot don't give a toss about stats.
Your obsession with these purported obsessions of others is quite telling to say the least while you obsess away. Again, you are describing what can be easily done in Skyrim. Leveling is so easy in Skyrim no matter what skill I choose.
I will speak for myself and myself alone, and not try and apply my standards to en entire hobby, when I say I WANT rich and meaningful character development and progression behind all that and I don't believe I need old school attributes to do it. In fact I prefer they were as behind the scenes and out of sight as possible.
This is the first in the posts I have read by you, that you make the "speak for myself" claim, yet you go out of your way to belie this with the very words you typed just before here in this very same post of yours. You, nor I, nor anyone else, gets to tell others what RPing is to them and what is meaningful to them. Since you wanted to make the comparisons, I can just as well do the same thing and actually be consistent about it.
So it seems there is at least three types of TES fans.
I don't know.... with that kind of attitude I wouldn't want to be a company developing anything for you.
I am not alone, yet you describe two types of TES fans, not three; more inconsistency it seems.