People hate this kind of stuff, and I'm one of them, and we have very good reasons for hating it. If Bethesda are blind or deaf and haven't even thought of including an option to "fix" this, then mods will fix it for sure.
I know I'll still buy Skyrim, but I wouldn't ever play it unless I have an option (either by default or by mod) to get rid of those friggen hand-held things that acts like if I'm a 10-year old mindless robot that can't think for him/herself.
I don't hate it, and I'm not 10 years old.
Infact I just find it tedious when I have to go and speak to a person, and I know the town in which they live, but not their house. So the only way to find where they are is to walk from door to door seeing who owns the house. I'm sure I'm not the only person who feels this way. The fact is, you don't have to have it on, and alot of people can be drastically put off a game because it expects you to trudge around a town for sometime when all you want to do is get on with a quest. Although, with that said I agree that it shouldn't be impossible to do a quest without the compass. Sufficient guidance should be given to manage without.