What is up with that reply? She was merely stating her opinion, and she has a point. I play male characters all the time and I have no trouble relating to them at all. We are really not so different in our mindsets, nor do our experiences necessarily have to be (especially not "infinitely more different").
I get the feeling she has a reason for expecting me to look down on women. And everyone is different. Everyone. Please stop making me out to be some sixist jerk. I know females are human. But I am not female. Male human is as close as it gets.
If anyone wants to continue this, or still thinks I'm some terrible, confused person,
please aim for my PM box. This has gotten out of hand.
Back on topic I think that the genders in the game are a little too similar. By that I mean that there aren't enough (small) quests open to only one gender or quests that play out differently based on gender. It would really add to the replay value. I know Morrowind had a few small changes based on six, which I never noticed until I played as a female. Just little things. And a few changes based on race could show up too. Getting a free ride as an Orc and Argonian on a few things in Oblivion was a nice surprise (better than being called a filthy Orc anyway).