Counterargument? Okay, how about this? It's a bunch of tired stereotypes and total generalisations. You have some screwed up opinion that because you are a typical chauvinist, as it seems from your posts (Your girlfriend asks for a romantic comedy and you buy a porm movie without evenconsulting her? What is wrong with you?), you think that every woman thinks the same and every man thinks the same. There are obviously tendencies for genders to be different but these are far from absolute and they are not totally alien to each other. You say all women are more emotional than men. In MBTI personality tests, for example, the thinking-feeling ratio is about 60-40% for men and 40-60% for women, so there you have 40% of women who contradict your supposition, which happens to be quite a lot. Your statement is a huge generalisation. And seriously? Anyone who is attracted to nice looking things is a female (see your the Blob comment)? What the hell kind of absurd stereotype is that? And even to the small degree that stereotypes remain accurate, this is due mostly to cultural expectations. Stereotypes are self perpetuating, because the majority of people want to 'fit in' to whatever mould they are closest to, and it is minimally to do with natural tendency.
did i say that all women are more emotional that all men. no i said that women are more emotional that men........big difference in how you infer it. are lamborghinis faster than fords.......yes and no. lamborghinis arent faster than nascar fords. thank you for the MBTI thing though cause that simply backed up my point. heres another science fact that should get you all teed off .......men are stronger than women.........now you can run off and find some 5'2" nerdy guy that got out bench pressed by one of the GLOW girls and prove me wrong on that as well. :rolleyes:
selling relationship advice in books and magazine is a huge moneymaker in this culture, just take a gander at whats on the supermarket magazine rack at the checkout line. my personal favorite is the late night guy that tells you how to pick up chicks while wearing a funny feathered hat. dear abby columns are mostly relationship advice between men and women. if men and women thought the same and clicked together so well we wouldnt have such a high divorce rate.
if you have proof that the blob was not female im more than willing to listen to it. :biggrin: until then my theory stands
as for the porm thing im not going make excuses for that.........i was in my twenties and that was a very bad judgement call on my part..........the ONLY reason i did it was cause i figured it was better than having to watch titanic or some other godawful movie and i thought i might get some nookie. after some time passed she thought it was funny enough to tell her friends and family and everyone had a good laugh at my expense.