Weird. When I got that instruction, the dialogue option appeared for Yes Man.
Don't take this the wrong way, but did you make sure to scroll through them all? As I recall the "I hate them now" option was at the bottom of a long list of options. I almost didn't see it myself since I'm so used to all the options being immediately visible.
I don't blame you for asking, but the list of options has become very short. The Omertas are the only group left. The Boomers support me, the Khans left, and I ignored the BoS and White Gloves.
As an aside, according to the wiki you should be able to change your opinion of a group after the fact, but I'm not able to do that with the White Gloves. I don't know if this is true, or if it is, whether it's a related problem.