It's like saying you would play the sims game and everyday your sim went off to work and left the house empty, you sat and watched the screen in the default time because you felt fast forward was cheating.
aIt's feature by design, it's not cheating.
Just because you find it impossible to enjoy doesn't mean others feel the same.
It doesn't have to be cheating for somebody to not want to use it. I personally feel it cheapens the experience, for me. So, no, I'm not lying when I say I won't use it.
And if it takes you an hour real time to get ANYWHERE in the game, your doing it wrong (that is unless your searching for something).