a lot of people realize this level of open-world, free-form game is not available anywhere else, and are counting on Bethesda to offer us something as good as the last one since most of us, here on the forums, still play Oblivion and keep going back to it after shiny new toys loose their luster. (mostly PC games, but not exclusively)
Our hopes and criticisms towards Bethesda are comparable to what an trainer would feel towards his trainee, we are so critical, and seem to always think the worst of them, but in the end we are so grateful to them for the past successes and ride them hard so they shine even brighter in the future. in a way, we ARE coaches, we cannot do their art, (though some of us can, to some extent) but we can offer an outsiders point of view. and a second unbiased perspective is always good ti have for ANY artist. I wish the forumites would give more constructive feedback and just being critical sometimes, and perhaps give a little faith to those whom have never failed to impress the world, but so long as the magical weavers at Bethesda take the complaints and nitpicking the right way, we are a great source of knowledge to them.
Oblivion might not have succeeded at all if no complaints were made about Morrowind.
on that note, let's not stop pointing out the flaws, and suggesting improvements, but lets give credit where it's due, and lets try to be more constructive and a bit less negative.
Bethesda will impress the world again on 11/11/11, but it will have it's flaws too. just remember to point them out in a constructive fashion, and point out what you love best so they know not to take it away.