This is one of the reasons why i sadly get less and less interested in Skyrim the more i read about it. Its turning out to be more and more like a adventure game with rpg elements then a rpg.
Not true, because YOU decide how and what your character is in the game. Stats are not gone now though, they were only replaced, and you don't see them actually simplifying the game, cause if you think about it Perks are far more complicated and smart than attributes (where you have no thinking whatsoever).
And I beg you to reconsider what you're saying, stats, attributes, all of this is not what makes a RPG an actual RPG, If ever stats and attributes what the actual RPG elements you're talking about. They've taken them out in order to give a better RPG experience. Think about it, now not EVERY living creature out there attacks us on sight, if this was an actual action game rather than a RPG one than why would they implement such a system? Skyrim is a pure RPG, you have complete control over your character, you can develop it the way you want to, you have 100% freedom to do whatever you feel like and you're not limited almost by anything but gravity.
It's a RPG, maybe not like the ones prior to it, but it's a RPG.