Look.. I'm on the 360 also. I also got the dlc message..
So what?. You just load the game. The game is fine once you load it up.... . No DLC is actually missing. The load order is just screwy so it's reading the patch first and the then the dlc. Once it loads up everything sorts itself out.
And if you are one of the unlucky few who's game freezes up and you can't load any save game you have.. Then they are obviously going to need more details than. "my game froze, ... fix it."
Like.. What's in your inventory? How far into the game are you? Where is your character at?
If you don't know these things and can't remember where you were anyway. Start a new game...
The game doesn't just load up. Almost everyone's game crashes. We're not the unlucky few, you are the lucky few. We are the unlucky majority.
What details do you expect from this, how do we get details when we can't load anything? Besides, who here is a video game programmer?
How do we tell what's in our inventory when we can't open our saves? I can tell you what my latest character is carrying, and the one before him, but after that, I have no clue. My latest character has completely different items then the one before him, same goes for the others. All my characters are over level 20. 3 of them are in the Mojave, and 1 is in the Lucky 38. That's all the information I can get. Unless you want to hear about the items my Josey Wales or Macellare (Butcher) character are carrying.
And why should we start a new game because they screwed up?