Right, becuase after having to march across the battered, and ruined, wasteland that was America, and seeing how [censored] the world is after living most of his life inside a bunker shut away, and being told lies, like most of the rest of the Brotherhood have, about how everything in the world is inferor to them, and actually seeing for the first time how much people suffer, and how much he could do to help the people, him actually helping the people is so unrealistic? I guess Veronica is unrealistic also? she is essentially the East Coast BoS filtered into one person.
Also, stuff being able to be absolute black and white is really up to debate. I'm treading carefully here, but in Hitler's mind he was good, he considered his methods perfectly fine and the best for his people in the long term. Was he right? Nope. But at those times looking at how he pulled his country out of financial [censored] - I know that his methods were rather questionable, to put it mildly, but not like the public knew much about that - many people believed in him, even after he started committing his atrocities. On grand situations like that you can't necessarily fit good vs evil and say that's basically what it was. (On smaller ones you can, like it's obvious that Ted Bundy killed out of sport.)
The Enclave actually felt bad that they had to release the Curling virus but they seriously thought that that was the best hope for humanity. They were still mostly black though, I agree on that one. The Master is a whole lot different though, I won't even get into explaining him, but I did post in the Fallout Speculation Thread 95 about the moral greyness of how you deal with him. But overall I would agree that only NV went really hard on the gray and grey stuff, but it was present in the older games, even in F2 with some of the side quests.
2. What's there to tell? they hid, Delphine took the job of an in keeper, and Esbern fled into the Ratway. also you can ask them about the thalmor, its part of Delphine's dialog options during the MQ.
3. Consdering that they CAN'T kill Parth for themselves, thats kinda impossible, and being able to tell them that is unrealsitic
4. You cant kill off a faction like the blades, becuase it ruins the plot of tuture games. Stop thinking in only the immediate and look at the long term
5. *ditto*
2. Something more into detail. Hints about the Thalmor's intentions. Anything more in-depth.
3. I meant in a "giving the finger" kind of way.
4. You can't, but not everything the character does has to be canon, they can just say that that didn't happen, the canon Dragonborn didn't kill them, it was done a whole lot of times in the Fallout franchise.
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