I have resolved never to nick anything from the Census office :angel: , although I have sometimes slept there if I am still in Seyda Neen on my first or second night on Vvardenfell. I always solve the murder of the tax collector & watch the elf fall. I give Fargoth his ring, and never take Hrisskar's quest. I do usually grab the axe in the tree stump, seeing as my Nords all use them as their primary weapon. It's not much of a weapon but Arrille rarely stocks anything half-way decent for axe-loving Nords, so its usually the best I can do.
Sometimes I take on the Addamasartus gang, sometimes I chicken out after being clobbered by an MCA pickpocket (or similar).
After that I head over to Balmora, making sure to collect mushrooms on my way, flowers too if I walk rather than ride.
Once I'm in Balmora I report to Caius, introduce myself to the Balmora Blades and then I feel my game really begins.
I spend the next few levels developing my character slowly, making friends (&enemies) trading, practicing and performing lowly quests for whatever guilds I have joined. Only when I am sure of what sort of character I am playing do I choose my House. And Caius sometimes has to wait a very long time before I come back for my first noob Blades task.